Well, I see you’re at it again. Ni-i-i-i-i-ice.

WHY are you so AFRAID of members going to other sites? Hmmmm?

Do you not realize that’s kind of...crazy? And EXTREMELY controlling – the very thing you’re supposed to be against?

If you were on the level, you wouldn’t be so paranoid about your members dabbling elsewhere. It wouldn’t matter to you. It's the Internet, for cripe's sake. You can't control what everybody does on the Internet. To even think you can, or to try, is nutso. (Oh, but I think you're just afraid of them connecting with specific people or forums - hmmm - the ones who left you because of your abusive behavior, right? That's abusive, too. To control someone out of spite... anger... just plain wrong.)

If you were on the level, you wouldn’t be reading members’ PRIVATE messages – that’s really sick, do you know that? – blockading and deleting them – under the guise of “keeping your members safe.” WHO are you keeping them “safe” from – outsiders who might give them the perspective that YOU are the nutso, controlling ones?

It’s ABUSER behavior. YOU are controlling your membership. YOU are ISOLATING them from others – other friends, other perspectives. YOU are restricting and controlling their communications with others. YOU are the abusers.

It’s a sick shame that you are abusing those who come to you for help and safety from abuse. Disgusting.

You can’t keep people from eventually realizing the truth. Your mad scrabble to maintain control, your trigger-finger bannings, blatant disregard for privacy, paranoia and finger-pointing (“they’re the ones to blame!” “we’re just keeping you safe!”) doesn’t hold up forever, except in the minds of those too fogged to be able to see the truth.

Your behaviors are sick. You manipulate the abused – who are not the healthiest to start with – and control them to maintain your own power trip.

Sick, sick, sick.